I planned to write a nice long post Friday afternoon, but that didn’t happen. I got home that sunny afternoon and my mom called me, sobbing on the other end of the phone. My 84 year old grandfather is not doing well. I knew he went into the hospital Wednesday night, but you just get used to people recovering, so I assumed he would.
My grandfather is a walking marvel of modern medicine. He has a pace maker, a defibrillator, a metal plate somewhere in there. He survived prostate cancer. He has been a pipe smoker his whole life. And he has lived with congestive heart failure for awhile now. But he will not be recovering from this latest decline in his health.
I spent all day yesterday up at the hospital with my mom and grandmother. I don’t think this will be a long… well, I don’t think it will be long.
My best friend Erika was in town and she stole me away last night, which got my mind off things and left me with a slight headache this morning. I might write more about that later. I might get some garden work done today. I might retreat to my ceramics studio and cry while I throw some clay. I’m just playing every minute by ear. And hopefully I will write more in the next day or two. And Jay leaves town this morning for a week, which we both agree he should still do. Sigh.
Don says
These pages of life keep right on turning for you, one after another. It sounds like Erika was just what your inner doctor ordered and those slight AM headaches are sometimes worth it. Hang in there.
Deadlifeboat WrecKords! says
Hang in there! I hope your grandfather is well. Maybe plant something special for him?
Mike
Renee says
Thanks guys. You are right Don – Erika is a god send. Mike – that is a really sweet idea. The rhody he gave me last spring is blooming right now, which I enjoyed telling him about this morning.
Robbyn says
Sending you warm thoughts and hugs across the miles…